I have heard of the Love and Logic books about parenting in the adoptive parenting world for years now. I finally got the book and read it after it was recommended in the "Parenting the Hurt Child" book I just read. I really like it so far. It makes sense and I feel like I'm already seeing some results in terms of the kids doing some thinking for themselves. If only I could get my husband as interested in it and reading it so that we can work on this together. I would prefer that very much over him looking at me like I am crazy, and me feeling like every word out of his mouth goes against every thing I just read! Yikes!